What is Asexuality?


I've always had a low "drive" and I had sex for the first time a few days ago. It was not pleasurable I wasn't even really aroused, I wasn't fully erect. It felt more like a burden and I just felt so wrong afterwards.

I've been wondering for a few years now if I might be asexual, Before I even had a girlfriend. Having this happens just makes it feel like a much more real possibility though. Are there any Asexuals out there? How do I know if I am one?


Have you ever had strong, romantic feelings for girls or guys? Or have you always just seen people as friends more than anything more. How often do you think about sex or similar things or get aroused? If never, or very rarely then you are probably Asexual.

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